The dance of attachment: why we change our role depending on who we are with
What is organized between two nervous systems, and not within a single one. Valérie-Anne O'Callaghan. You're not the same with everyone. Maybe it's happened to you. In one relationship, you were the pursuer: the one who texted first, the one who asked for clarity, the one who couldn't put down their phone. In the next, you were the one who needed space, the one who […]
Twelve spiritual tales you should stop believing
Valérie-Anne O'Callaghan: I've been observing how people talk in the spiritual world for some time now, and it grates on me more and more. The practices have their place, and many people find them beneficial. What grates on me are the ideas that are conveyed through them, and what those ideas do to the judgment of the listener. […]